Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
How can I fall in love with someone I know will be good for me? My problem is that I've still got feeling for my ex(C*) and she told me that I'm the only man for her, but she needs time to deal with things first, but I can't wait anymore for her to make her mind up(it's been a year) We both had other people during that year, and the girl(J*)I had is the perfect match for me, but my heart still belongs to C*.

I know my mind is screaming to get back with J* who is willing to give everything without thinking about it, but I'm drawn to the painfull wait for C*.....It's driving me insane. Advice
Sorry you are in this tough spot.

My advice is to explain your situation to C* and see how she responds. If she is negative about you then go with J*.

Good luck! George

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