She is giving me mixed signals
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I asked a question about two weeks ago and thankyou for your answer back, but now i thought it was over for good it seemed like we would never talk again but then out of the blue she comes to see me and wants to go hang out, but then she tells me that she keeps thinking about me and she is thinking about getting back together but it involves alot of dramatice changes like moving from ca to indiana and i love her that much to do it, even though i know that she is seeing someone else but they have only been together for a month and we were four years, and everything looks good, and she calls me later and asks me if i work tonight and that she is coming to see me again because that guy was already talking to another girl and she said he is a dog and everything looks like that we are getting back together but then that dude talks her into staying with him, and now she tells me that there is a part of her that wants to be with me but she is not sure what should i do hang in there or give up it seems that i am so close but so far please help me
Be honest but gentle and tell her the truth.
Tell her you want to move to Indiana and settle down in a peaceful, undramatic situation.
Hopefully she is a person who does not like drama. If she is, that could explain why she is flip-flopping about you and this other guy. Give this thought... she may want you to fight for her.
You are too near to give up now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com