Confused on what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend dated for 10 months it was going good for awhile we probably didnt go on to many dates and we had are share of fights, I gave her to much space and probably didnt have her feeling secure, i didnt seem liked i cared much either. I messed up alot. We broke up she said the love isnt there anymore but she wants to work things out, but one day she is i miss you the next she is like i dont miss u the tone of voice is all different over the phone one day to another we still kiss adn everything when we hang out im feeling im missing alittle detail as to get her back im not quite sure i said take all the time she needs she even said she wants to go on a date soon but for me to surprise her this girl is like trying to do a jigsaw puzzle everything she is saying and doing is indicating get back toghther but where not i dont understand what is going on here exactly with all the things we say we still say we love each other if i dont call her say for a few days she'll call me in a sadden tone and end the conversation with i love, i phone conversations arent long i cant seem to get past the how is ur day. It.s all confusing here maybe u can clear it up with what im missing please help it be really appreciated
Even though you two say you love each other, it doesn't seem to be true.
My conclusion is based mostly on the way you describe your phone calls. She is off and on with you, and you can't seem to carry on a conversation with her.
My advice is to have a long, trusting, caring, and honest conversation about how you feel about each other. Try to come to some understanding about going out on a date since that may be the key to getting back together again.
You probably need to be more active in the relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com