Will things change between us?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i feel like i really luv this guy. i've felt like i've loved him for years, but he doesn't luv me the same way. i've tried many ways to try and forget this feeling for him but i just can't and sometimes it makes me cry at night. sometimes i even wonder if i truly luv him. i sometimes think maybe it is lust. if i hav to question my luv for him, is it really luv? i mean, i care for him and all. i've known him for years and of course i luv him like family, but i also feel this other thing for him. i just don't really know what it is. i don't want to feel these things for him because i know how he feels for me, but he told me himself that things may change the way he feels for me someday. but am i willing to wait years later from now? and besides, another part of me really does want to feel these things for him because what if his feelings do change? he flirts with me all the time too and it really confuses me. what if after all this time his feelings changed? is it luv or lust for him? do i want to feel or not want to feel these things for him? do u think his feelings will change? plz help
Sorry you are in this situation.
I don't have answers to your questions because they would mostly be guesswork.
My advice is to stay close to him, see how your feelings develop, try to date other boys. If his mind does change, he might like you better because you have matured.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com