I want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girl and I dated for at least 14 months. In 14 months we broke up a few times because, She was affraid of commetment, i was to into her life, "she needed space", and now we are broken up again. She went to another country for school in the begining of our realtionship so i gave her the green light to be free but with a promise both of us agreed on, nothing below the waist. She broke that promise and I looked passed it and stayed with her. We got so close we started making plans to go away for school together and a week befor her leaveing date she found out she had Cancer. she asked for me to give some space and so i did, i was scared for her and tried to handle things back at home i called her but she got snappy and we got into a fight the next day i told her to have fun with her friends because i was an a** the day before. that night her friend lied to me about being with her. She broke up with me the next day. she has been threw surgery and its been a few days, more than a week, since we last really talked. i dont know how to talk to her and feel she is ignoring me. what should i do?
Give her the space she needs.
Ask her if you can call her once a week just to see how she is doing, which will let her know that you care. Talk for only 15 mins, be cheerful, and don't talk about your relationship.
Maybe after a number of these talks she will feel better about you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com