Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Okay to start off I'm really confused cause my feeling run me normally but they've been acting weird lately. Okay I met this girl like 5 days ago and she acted really flirty around me. This made me feel good because I'm never on the recieving end of those kind of expressions. Basically this starts off like an earlier post I read she constantly was trying to touch me (and put makeup on me U-U). We've hung out everyday all day for 3 of the last five days. On the second day I found out she had a boyfriend. I thought cool I have'nt known her long enough to have any real feelings anyway. Today I met her boyfriend, and he was a cool guy so the three of us hung out today. They were both broke so I bought them lunch and played some games at the arcade. I knew I'd be pretty much the third wheel, but I stayed anyway. eventhough, they were kissing constantly. Normally I can classify what I feel alot easier, but I'm confused. I don't know if I want to be friends or if subconsciously I'm hoping that we can be more. I feel bad because I feel like I'm wishing harm upon her relationship with her boyfriend.
Your feelings are perfectly natural.
Enjoy the time you have with her but recognizing that she is with another.
Perhaps something will develop between you two.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com