Should I wait or should I fight for my love????
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend and I were together for 4.5 years. We have so much chemistry and we both get along very very well. Towards the end she was very stressed with school and work and family...just trying to find that balance in life. With all this stress I think we both started to loose touch with each other and our relationship was over shadowed by all the personal stuff.
We both agreed a break would be good. Right after that I was devistated and desperate to get her back and in doing so I became very pushy, thus causing her to distance herself from me. When we contact each other online or something not face to face she seems very distant, but when we see each other we flirt, laugh and have fun and it just feels right.
Im just confussed because if she doesnt want to be with me than why is the door being left open? Is she waiting for me to say or do something? Over the past month I have tried to be sweet and caring, without being pushy. I want to leave our past in the past and not pick up where we left off but start over.
I know things will be better and I know this is worth fighting for. Is there anything I can do to make her realize this without pushing her farther away? Every cell in body is madly in love with her agian.
My advice is to continue doing what you are doing.
Especially the face to face part which seems to be working very well.
And, as you said, don't push her away by overdoing it.
Ask her if she would be willing to go out to a nice dinner once a month just to chat. This may charm her back to you eventually.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com