Heart Confusion? Partners best friend
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my parnter for almost for five years, hes not a bad bloke, but for me there seems to be something missing!! We have two children and one on the way. But somewhere along the way about three years ago i started developing strong feelings for one of his best friends.. it started out as a soft spot but over time its become so much more.... I recently told him that i had feelings for him, he admitted he felt something for me too, but nothing could ever happen between us, even if i split up with my partner, a morale code... My partner and split up for a while so i could try and sort my head out and in this time i found out i was pregnant so therefore decided to go back to my partner. But i find myself still thinking of his friend, my heart aches for him in every way... I know its a really bad situation and that it is wrong, but i find myself lost in him and i don't know what to do... i've tried to stop, but to no avail... I think life is playing a cruel game on me, i know there is no answer but if someone could help in any way i would really appreciate it
My advice is to see a professional counsellor as soon as possible.
You are living in a terrible situation and you need to find a way out of the pain. The counsellor should be able to help.
Another good thing that will result is that your children will feel happier with a happier mom.
Good luck! George
p.s. I also found advice on the internet that is similar to your situation:
-- from George
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