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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
me and my boyfriend were 2ghter for 9 months but heres the curve he lives in in england and i live in united states we did a lot of breaking up and getting back toghter but now we broke up for somethin reasonble we broke for living in diffrent countrys but im d person who brang it up he said i needed some and he wasnt there to help until summer but his b-day is this saturday and i dont kno if i should call him cause i love him more then i love myself and usually we or he would come back to each other but he hansti want 2 kno should i even try to persuee us and call him cuss hes turning 18tn and gettin ready to go to college and i was always worried is he gonna cheat cuss im so far away Advice
Sure, give him a call on his birthday.

That would be a nice thing to do even if you were only his friend.

Long distance romances are like fragile flowers. It is so difficult to keep in touch and express your feelings. And especially at your age you have "raging hormones" that pull you this way and that.

When you talk to him on his birthday, try to get a feeling from him about how long he thinks your break up will last. You deserve to know.

Good luck! George

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