Am I the only one?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am sure that I am not the only one that has ever went through such a situation, but when you are sitting in the middle of it you feel very alone. I was in a relationship with someone for 2 years and we began to have problems. I wanted more out of the relationship then him. After months of fighting, breaking up and getting back together, we finally parted ways. We were broke up for a couple of months. Neither one of us were doing any good apart.We started talking on the phone and meeting out. We really missed being together. One night at dinner he asked me to marry him. I said yes and the next week we ran away and got married. That has been about a month now, and the other night he tells me that the girl that he was seeing while we were broke up is pregnant. I was so upset I got sick. I am so confused on how to handle this unexpected news. Please shed some light on my dilema.
Baby after the fact! Advice
She will probably get court-ordered child support from your husband.

If you are financially set then this might not matter. But if you are like most of us you will be shocked at how much he might have to pay. This could cut into your life-style pretty sorely.

Since your relationship is already pretty shaky (based on past experience) this might be the straw that broke the camel's back.

So prepare yourself for rocky times ahead.

Good luck! George

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