Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
last Monday my ex-bf of 5 months called me to say hi.During the 1 1/2 hr we were on the phone he told me he missed me and that he wanted to see me.I moved 30 min. away from where i used to live which means i won't be going to the same school which means i won't be able to see him everyday...which means a realtionship wouldn't work-he drives but he says gas is too high i told him if he really wanted to see me that it wouldn't matter he then told me that he knows my boyfriend which is also why he won't come see me...but i don't have a boyfriend i just simply talk to people and one of which who are one of his friends.My ex told me that one of the boys i talk to told him that we've had sexual contact & that we are a couple...so i told my ex that it wasn't true.So of course i don't want anybody making the realtionship between me and my ex worse so i called the boy and asked him about what i had been told he told me that he's been in summer school and hasn't seen or talked to my ex.I text my ex and told him that he was lying because i asked my "friend" and my ex told me that he knows my friend never said anything because he(my ex) was lying...me and my ex broke up because he lied to me and to get revenge while we were together i cheated on him.I told my ex that i never wanted to talk to him because he hasn't changed...he's still a lier.My ex then told me that he only wants to keep contact with me because he wants to have sex with me.I wanted to end all contact with him but he was my 1st love and i still want to talk to him-just not as a boyfriend...should i keep talking to him??
No you shouldn't see him.
He doesn't care very much about you and he lies to you.
He doesn't even want to drive 10 minutes (about 40 cents) to see you.
Cut your losses and be happy you are done with him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com