i would like sex without committment

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am a female in my 30's. I have been disillusioned by long term relationships and marriage. Someday I may want that again but right now I just want to date guys and have some fun. Travel and play.

I really enjoy flirting and sex. I am called a "hottie" by guys I don't know. Probably because I have a nice body and I make men feel good because I know exactly how to read them individually and flirt accordingly. I have a lot of fun and so do they. I can start a party at a bar when everyone is sitting there looking glum. I am very confident and happy with my independance.

Anyway, society frowns on this especially from a girl but it is so comfortable for me to be able to do what I want and not have to deal with the rest of a relationship.

I am very upfront about it with the guys I see. Some of course LOVE the idea LOL but others say they are ok with it but then get very attached to me anyway. I always try to detect when that is happening and let them down easy.

I don't want to be judged by you but I am curious as to if I am a rare case if if there are other girls like me.

By the way, I am still human and do get lonely from time to time but I had periods of even greater lonleyness when I was married.

Thank you for the interesting web site!

RomanceClass.com Advice
You are very lucky to be so attractive and happy-go-lucky.

It is only natural that you find guys falling for you and you are kind to watch for it and let them down easily.

Your life is yours to live, of course, and nobody should criticize you for taking advantage of what nature has given you. You have tried one way of living and now you are trying a different way. Many women have tried or would love to try doing what you are doing.

Be yourself and give other women a clue about how much fun life can be.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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