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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hello, I have been divorced for over a year now but me and my ex have a wierd thing going on. We were married for five years and together for almost ten, we never had too many issues no fighting or anything like that. But when she had or child in 03 she just got a little odd like she diddnt care about me anymore. Anyways she tells me that she will always love me and that she doesnt want to be with any one els. We still have sex alot but she also says she doesnt want to live with me or anything like that. My family has alot of trust issues growing up, so a fib alot about little things to make myself look beter. During my college years i would tell her that i was going to class and not actually go and because of this she says she cant trust me. I want to be with her so what should I do?
Have long, honest, and gentle conversations with her about how you feel and how you want things to be.
If you don't tell her she won't know. Give up the fibbing, that will not get you anywhere. Trust is a very important aspect of a relationship and you need to work on regaining her trust. Tell her the truth about small things where you have been less that perfect. That will show her you are trying to be honest.
Honestly will bring her back to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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