I just don't understand!!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Let me start at the beginning. I finally got out of a horrible relationship about 3 months ago. That boyfriend was the worst I've ever had bekuz he was soooooo jealous of every single tiny little thing I did. If i hugged a guy, we'd almost break up, if I went out with my girls, we would almost break up. It was ridiculous and I finally got enough strength to pull away after about a year and a half of it. Anywa. So my current boyfriend has been one of be best friends for the last year and he helped me thru that last relationship and we're perfect for each other. So we started dating about 2 and a half months ago and we've been together since...... but all of a sudden this whole jealously issue is coming up with him too. I don't understand! What is wrong with having guy friends! HE has girlfriends and even after my horrible bad relationship ending with that guy actually cheating on me, I still trust him more than he trusts me. And I can honestly say I've never done anything to make him think he can't trust me. I WILL NOT do another jealous relationship, and I admit that I'm a little phsyco now and a little overly cautious but I can't go thru somthing like that again. I have to have my own life and I don't wanna break up but I won't let him run my life, and I won't deal with alwaz feeling shitty when I'm not doing anything wrong. I'm really worried about this turning out like it did last time, but he keeps getting jealous over really really stupid things and it drives me insane especially bekuz we've already had a HUGE talk about this and he agreed that it would get better, but I think it got worse. What do I do? I can't go thru somthing like this again, and I have so many other guys that would treat me better..... please help me bekuz I honestly don't understand what he's thinking and I don't know what to do!
Thanks A LOT!
Break up with him.
He knows what happened before and now he is doing it too.
Don't try to fix him, he is just wrong for you.
Find somebody new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com