is there hope?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my girlfriend of almost 2yrs cut it off with me in mid-february.we would still text-talk-and get together several times a week.i wrote you guys a month and half ago-i was acting mean-drinking to much and i stopped the drinking all is good on that end.
just last night she said even though were not boyfriend-girlfriend she wants to part ways-no more anything with us-she said she wants what i say and want which is to settle down(married)but not with me-she doesnt want us or want me- and us still talking and hanging out is to stressful and not needed-because there is pressure the-i love yous-the when can we hang out-where did you go last night-she said its to much-shes done -and all the questions and emotions and rushing and jealousy was still happening because we still talked and hang out but we have no right cuz were not together-so its over no more contact-move on
i adore this woman and want to spend my life with her and when we met she chased me for 4months-she was crazy bout me-
it felt like and i believed we are soulmates-its in me still-she seems lost or lost it-she has been going out alot for last 3months-and to alot of singles clubs and late nights-shes been mystery bout what her life is and what she does-weve had our breaks before but she never said this before-there might be others in picture im not sure-on top of it shes stubborn-shes not type to initiate things-so if i pull back with texts and e-mails she will think im waiting to see if she will write first-ive never went over 4 days without contacting her-and every time it was me who texted her first-i want to spend my life with her-
so does it sound hopless?can i get her back or is she gone for good?what do i do?
Ask her if you can call her once a week.
You would do this just to see how she is doing and as a sign that you still care. Be cheerful, don't dwell on your relationship, and keep the call to 15 mins.
This way she can have the separation she needs and you can have the contact you need.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com