His new girlfriend is jealous of me. What can I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My bofriend and I broke up about six months ago. About seven months ago he met a girl and fell in love with her. We broke up a month later. He says he wasn't cheating and only started dating her from february on. They've been living together now for a month and I haven't had contact with my ex for two months now.
My problem is. Ever since I found out they've been dating she's been harrassing me, but in such a way I have no proof to go to the police. She must be jealous of me in some way, but what can I do to make her stop. I've been egnoring her for the last two months now, but that isn't working. She still goes on and on and my ex-boyfriend likes it that's she's jealous. What can I do to make her stop. They've got their life, why can't I have mine? (oh, she's 19, he's 26, and I'm 27. Our relationship lasted 5 1/2 years of which 2 we lived together.)
It's difficult to answer your question since you didn't say how she is harrassing you.
Let's assume that she is doing it by phone. That's easy, don't answer her calls, if she gets through hang up on her. If you have to turn off the ringer.
Or change the phone number.
If she is harrassing you some other way, please let me know. (Don't reply to this message because it won't reach me... go back to the questions page and resubmit a question).
Good luck, George
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