I Like a Guy - He's Engaged to Someone Else
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I really like this guy, but he's engaged to another woman. He says he doesn't love her. Should I keep seeing him?
If you´re able to ´rip him away´ from someone he´s engaged to, it won´t bode well for how constant he´ll be when (if) he´s later engaged to you. Won´t you always worry that someone else will just rip him away from you, if he´s so fickle that a commitment means nothing? Who he chooses to commit to is up to him. If he breaks his engagement, it should be because he wants to, not because someone else pressured him to. If he stays in it, he shouldn't be dating someone else too! You definitely don´t want to be with a guy that just bends and gives in to a female that pushes him, because the next time it happens, it might be you who thinks he's trustworthy and another female who's playing around with him. If he doesn´t love his fiance, and really wants to leave her, he *will* leave her. If he doesn´t leave her, you should find someone that willingly wants to be with you, without being pressured into it. Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship. Without trust, you really don't have someone you can depend on.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com