what should i do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am dating this guy for nearly 3 monthes now. I met him through hi5. After we been on a date together we dicided to go for a relationship. he lives quite far away from me and he has a proper job. But he hasn't got much time to meet up with me because he is really busy with his job but we meet up once twice a week. I really want him to meet up with me atleast once a week but i have to understand his situation so i am okey with that. He is my first boy friend and my first love. Since i met him i was falling in to him each day. I really love him and i would do anything to make him happy. I am still a virgin and i haven't had proper sex with him too. He never push me to have sex with him but he expects me 2 have sex with him when i am ready. To be honest we have been together nearly 3 months but we haven't been out for a meal or movie together because he says he haven't got money to take me out at the moment. He really apologise for that all the time and he tells me he will take me out soon. I feel bit upset about that because he works so he should have some kind of money. Anyhow i really really like him so i am okey with everything because i don't want to bother him.
But now i have got a problem. We don't talk on da phone all the time but we do evry 3 days time. Few days time i tried to rang him but seems he is not picking up my calls and it staright away goes to the voice mail. I kept a message asking what's goin on and don't he want to talk 2 me any more or something. And i told him 2 call me back but 3 days time he never call me back. I feel really sad and i don't know what to do. What should i do? Considering my story do you think he really likes me or do you think he is playing with me??? Please help me i really don't understand about this.
It is very difficult for a long distance romance to work well.
He doesn't sound like he has much interest in you. He doesn't return your calls and he doesn't take you out when he must have some money.
You really need to talk with him and figure out what is going on in his mind. If he can't explain his behavior it's time to start thinking of leaving him behind.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com