I messed up, he likes another girl, and I want him back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Okay well me and *chad* have been on and off for about 4 yrs now. Even before we got into this relationship we were best friends. Through out the relationship, i broke it off here and there to date other guys and he had sex with other girls. About 2 or 3 months ago we started again but he doesn't trust me or believe me about other guys because of everything that we have already been through and the last time we broke up was becasue i met this guy at a concert and i wanted to get to know him better. Well that guy truned out to be a douche so I went back to *chad*. All he wants is to believe me and know what I am doing most of the time. I know I messed up when I broke it off to meet this other guy. I have really tried to change my ways so I can be with *chad* but last night he left me for good (so he says) for another girl. It's like he's doing this now because I have done it to him before. I can't stop thinking about him now and I want him back because I have changed and I want only him. Please help me because I'm driving myself crazy thinking about all of this.
This only happened last night.
It is too early to worry about the long term effects of his statement.
Tomorrow he may want you back again.
Meanwhile spend your time thinking of ways to bring him back. For example, ask him over for his favorite home cooked meal. That might break the ice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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