No Spark

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, I just feel bad about a situation I'm in. I've gone out on a couple of dates with a nice guy, who likes me alot, and I do enjoy his company. On each date we spend about 4 hours together, and I just don't feel a romantic spark, I don't enjoy kissing him at all and I don't know what to do. He likes me, and I feel so bad because he is very nice, and I enjoy the places we go to on our dates, but by now, shouldn't I want to touch him??
Please advise....Thank you.

RomanceClass.com Advice
Your body and your mind are giving you are message... you aren't attracted to him.

This happens frequently when two people who don't know each other that well don't turn out good for each other.

Without the spark, nothing is ever going to happen in a lasting way for you two.

Might as well acknowledge it and chalk it up to experience.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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