friends in Love
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
In the 7th grade I loved this girl so much i'd die for her. We are best friends now. Like brother and sister. I still love her. Another friend recently found out. He thinks it is easy to see that I'm in love with her and that she is in love with me. She says stuff like 'our friendship could change someday, i may be your wife.' She also asked me who i liked at school. I told her no one. Then I asked her and she said no one in the same way (trying to hide something). When we talk she doesn't look at me unless I look somewhere else. I do the samething. Can it be obvious that we love each other?
What are signs that she may love me back. Should I have told her I loved her when she asked who i liked?
Yes, you should always try to be honest about your feelings in a nice way.
The next time you talk, ask her to look you in the eyes when you talk and that you will try to do it also. It is important to communications that you maintain eye contact. It will make you feel more connected and your communications will be better.
Also, my advice is to avoid the word "love" at your age. Tell her you have strong feelings for her and that you like her a lot. She may not be ready for talk of love.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com