i was close and i messed it up
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
about a month of 2 ago me and my girlfriend split up because we had grown apart, we started to sort things out and have been gradually rebuilding what we had, a couple of days ago we started getting intimate again and she invited me over one morning before my gym apointment, we made love for a couple of hours and it was really great we were cuddled up together and everything was going great,before i went she asked me 2 please keep it between us and i promised her (i've never broken a promise before 2 her for the whole 2 years we were together), the next day we had an argument before i went out drinking with my friends, i met one of her friends whilei was out i bumped into her best mate and before i had realised it i had told her about the passionate morning we had together, it was a complete mistake and slip of the tongue and my ex found out, its destroyed what we'd worked for and she tells me she no longer feels that way for me because of what i've done. I don't know what to do because i stil love her and i don't want this stupid mistake to ruin everything we've worked so hard for what can i do?
When we mess up, about all we can do is apologize, apologize, apologize.
She's made mistakes in her life and should understand once she gets over the anger of it.
Maybe you should send her some flowers and give her some candy to let her know that you care about what happened and that you care about her.
After that ask her to go out to a fancy restaurant and try to make up.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com