plus she's leaving for a couple weeks
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Well, I have a messed up life, that's just the way it is. For once I have something that's going well, very well. This girl and I have been talking and flirting a lot. It started in class together, then when we had to stay after class (it was drama and practice usually went until after school.) Then outside class we'd glance at eachother. Now we'll talk outside of class and for the last few days I've called her nigthly and then today she called me just to talk. Which means she thinks about me outside of school and wants to talk to me. I think she likes me, I'm not quite sure though. See, she had this boyfriend last year, they didn't quit going out because they didn't like each other, he moved far far away. Anyway, when I see her I try and at least make eye contact, in the morning I walk to class and pass her locker I'll say good morning and we'll have a brief joke or wish each other good luck or tell one another to have a good day. Last weekend we went for a "run" where we actually walked two miles, we talked for about three hours, just the two of us. I was never really introduced to her mom but her mom knew who I was the first time I saw her which makes me think she talks about me at home to her parents. So one question is "she likes me right?" My other question invloves furthering our relationship with an upcoming problem. Summer is coming in a wee and the day after my graduation she leaves for California with her family, I'm going to be gone when she leaves but I'm going to call her in the morning and tell her goodbye. She's giong to be gone for two weeks and I don't want our relationship to be hurt, I don't know what I should do. I mean we aren't going out so I can't say "I'll call you nightly baby, I love you." I mean I'll call her but yeah...I was wondering if I should ask her out before she leaves or just let it go and be sure we hang out when she gets back. Then next school year, I'm giong to college in the same city so I can see her, just she'll still be in high school and I was wondering if you had any advice for that situation since I know it's common. Sorry I had so may questions, I'm just very confused.
Sounds like your life is going very well for you now... congratulations.
It definitely sounds as if she likes you. And don't worry about a two week break in seeing her. Just make sure she knows that YOU like her so she won't be confused.
Next fall, if you are still seeing her, you should be able to continue the relationship without any trouble.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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