Complicated Cheating Question
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
So I have been dating the same girl for 3 years. We were both virgins and gave that away to each other. At the end of the 3 years i wasnt so sure if i wanted to keep dating her. I told her that and said we need to take time apart. So we did. I never slept with anyone else, even though i had the chance, because I wouldnt do that to her. Me and her still went on dates and hung out 2-3 times a week. One night she said she was gonna study, i went over to her place and she had another guy over. I could understand if he was a respectable guy, but he was a low life, who already had one girl pregnant, and has STDs. She said he was just a friend and so on. A week later she slept with him 3 times in one night. A week after that she came crawling back to me saying it was a mistake.....During the period she was dating this guy she wouldnt even answer my phone calls. She was being exteremly mean which is completely out of her character. So she comes crawling back to me, but when i try to talk to her about the topic she shuts up and wont tell me why she did it. She says she isnt attracted to him but she did it cause she was hurt and thought it might make things better. Oh yea she didnt even use a condom, and she knew he was dirty.
I tried to work things out with her but whenever im with her i feel nothing but hurt, even months after. What should i do.
Since after months you feel nothing but hurt, my advice is to dump her.
You should be having a good time in your life and not be miserable.
She made mistakes but compounds the issue by not wanting to discuss things fully.
You will be happier if you found a new girlfriend.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com