6 yrs. together and he doesn''t even want to talk to me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs. and we've lived together for five. We just moved from NJ to LA, and he left and moved out a month ago. Since we moved he was always provoking fights with me and neglecting me, and just left. I know that he's already dating someone. I've lost my virginty to him and have never been intimate with anyone else. How can he so quickly sleep and date someone else? Doesn't he have any feeling for me left? He doesn't even want to talk to me. He was my best friend for so many years, and my family. I have no family or friends in this country and now I'm completely alone. I should also mention that I've supported him financially for 5 yrs. since we moved he found a really well paying job. I feel very used and alone, and I really miss him.
Do you think that he'll come back? I'm willing to do anything at this point.
He probably feels very guilty about what he has done.
That would explain why he doesn't want to talk with you.
He has done a terrible thing to you in many ways... if you are angry at him that would be completely normal.
There is no good way to get him back, so my advice is to forget him and look for someone new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com