I ran in to her 2 weeks ago after not seeing her for a year
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
MY ex and I went out for alomost a year. She has 4 children and is 10 years older than me. The kids loved me and I did them. Our relationship ended over 2 years ago, one year ago she emailed and asked me for help with her 15 year old son, i obliged and spent a month of time with the boy trying to teach him how to be a good man. We talked about getting back together but she was seeing someone at the time. 2 weeks ago I ran into her after not seeing or speaking to her for a year. All of the old feelings came back. My hands shook uncontrolably, I couldn't concentrate, we hugged like we were still together. We spoke for several minutes catching up on a year lost. A couple of days ago a friend of mine ran into her and he told her I still had feelings for her and would she consider getting back together, I did not ask him to do this he just did it. She said she would have to think about it. All the old feelings are there but I don't know how to approach this situation. I still love her very deeply and want her in my life but don't know how to go about it. Now that my friend has opened this book I don't know what to do. HELP!!!!!
Since you want her back, you should call her immediately and tell her how you feel.
Delaying this will just confuse her and sway her against you.
You didn't mention why your relationship ended, try to address that a bit but don't dwell on it. Just let her know you've thought about it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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