should I stay or should I go?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
The thing is I have been with this guy for 9 months now. We live together,were engaged and I am pregnant with his child. The thing is at the beginning everything between him and I were fine until a month or so ago. He makes me feel like I cant do anything right and it's like his cousins means more to him than me. His one guy cousin calls him so many times a day. My boyfriend and I will be hugging and kissing and his cousin calls and its likes he pushes me away to get to the phone. I told him I need him to be more romantic and bring me flowers I mean I just want him to be a man but all up to now, no flowers. Now he is always complaining about little things and causing me stress and it is not good for me because I am pregnant. I don't know if I should try harder or just end the relationship. Please, I need some advice.
Since you are considering leaving him, it's time you two had a long talk.
Communications is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. You need to have a loving, gentle, open, and honest discussion about how you and he feel about what's going on.
Let him know that you are considering breaking off the relationship. Try to give him general categories of problems and have an example of each. For example, he doesn't treat you special by bring you flowers as you requested.
Keep in mind that being pregnant can cause mood swings so choose a time when you are feeling good to approach him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com