how do i know?..
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok so theres this guy and i dont know if he likes me or not.and like we used to be really good friends. he used to tell me alot of things..i found out
a while ago that he thought i was "cute" but i dont know if he stilll thinks that.
well...everyone used to always say that i liked him and we would make a cute couple.but i dont know
if they were just saying taht cause i wanted to hear that.he heard them say that to cause he was right there when they said it he didnt do anything but i htin kturned red.we still talked.he used to always be so funny with me.like he would just stare at me for th longest time and smile.i think to be funny so i would just laugh and look away n stuff. he found out that i liked him and now it is completely different
he dosnt talk to me anymoer and on v-day my friend told me that he had her pay for her own candy gram and have him sign his name on it as if he bought it.she told me that he
only did it to make me jealous cause it would be funny.he sometimes makes fun of me now.i see hium looking at me then look away.it looks like he turns red a lot when by me.
but i dont know if thats cause hes just imbarrased around me
or what.every time my friends ask him y we arnt friends he says its cause im annoying.
last week i said that i was going to go to disneyland with my friends.he said disneyland was gay.but then the next day him and
his cousin say that they are going to get annual passes.then again i wanted a purple lolipop n he got one so did i
he said that he didntwant a purple one and switched with someone else i think he heard me asying i wanted a purple one.
so many things to say but i dont know what else to really say.oh yeah
he calls me E.T. cause he says i look like him.but he just like dosnt call me it.
he tells people that that is my nickname n stuff so yeah.and also yesterday the teaher picked on him for a question he didnt know the answer but i did
i just yelled out the answer n the teacher said "john i didnt know your voicew was so high." he said.."my voice isnt liek that"*in a stuckup voice*
so what do i do?
i know he likes someone but can he still like me a little bit?i really like him.
It sounds like he has become shy now that he knows you like him.
His behavior indicates that he is interested in you but afraid to do anything about it. He may be so afraid that he does mean things to you or ignores you.
Nothing much you can do about it except start over from the beginning with him. Whenever you see him, look him straight in the eye, say in a clear voice "hi" plus his name, and give him a big smile. Hopefully he reply nicely, give him a few chances to reply nicely.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com