Calling Her

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male

There is this girl I have fallen for. But its only one way. Apparently she appears to have no feelings for me. Except that she gave me a pat on my shoulder at a dinner with all our friends. I saw the look in her eyes that she cares for me. Even if she does not say it or express it, she is my dream girl.

After coming from vacation, I have emailed her twice. But she hasnt replied yet. Dont know how she is or where she is. I just need to know if she is alright.

Do you think it would be stalking her, if I call her and leave a message if she is okay. Would her ex-boyfriend (who visits her sometimes) mind me calling her.

I cannot live without her, even though I know she cannot be my girl.

What should I do. Help me please.

Thanks in advance. Advice
My advice is to assume the is ok.

Her failure to respond to your two emails is a good clue that she is not interested in you and that you should seek out a different girl.

Good luck! George

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