i keep screwing up
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my girlfriend have been dating for 3 1/2 years we took a break for about a month over last summer we got back together things have been going good but i am reverting back to my old ways i am picking fights with her over dumb things and i act as im not happy we have talked about this over and over and i say that im going to change and things are going to get better but i dont on monday she wanted to go to a bar and i gave her crap about it i then meet up with her later there she asked me there when i got there she had a real attitude and ahe wanted to leave so i said fine when we were walking to the car she decided she wanted to stay and wanted me to leave who does that to some one you love i know im not perfect and have not been acting right she said she would call me later but she never did its been a day now and i have not spoken to her i am so bumbed about this i am going to go to seek some councling i know i have anger issues but i dont want to loose her but i think she is fed up what shild i do is there any way to make this work thanks
You are taking a wise step by seeking professional counseling.
The counselor can help you identify some thoughts and behavior patters that you need to work on and tell you how to do it.
Going to the counselor will also help convince your g/f that you are serious about changing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com