helpVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
my gf and i love being with each other and whenever we're together walking we always hold hands and each other but there are times like in the car when im scared to hold hands what can i do about this? and my gf and i have kissed but whenever she comes over or i go over to her house and we're on the couch or something there is somone near us so how can we get alone in a comfotable place to make out and stuff? and how do i know if she wants to make up and stuff?
You are scared to hold hands with her in a car.
Is it because someone else is in the car? Don't let that bother you, everyone knows hand holding is ok.
Finding a place to make out is also difficult without having a car. Make friends with someone who has a car and then go on double date.
How about taking a picnic basket (or bag) and a blanket and find a nice secluded spot on the beach, or by a river, or a park?
There are two ways to find out what a girl wants to do. One is to just talk with her about it. The second is to slowly and gentle try to do what you want to do and you can be sure she will say stop if she is uncomfortable. Always stop when a girl says to.
Good luck! George
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