Complicated Situation

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok heres my problem I have known this girl for about 4 years and we have become quite good friends so the other night we were talking about we both admitted that we wanted to hookup with eachother. So the next day she says "we need to find a place where we can be alone this weekend so we can screw." The only problem with this is that I am a virgin. I despiraetly want my first time to be good, but I am also sort of worried. I am 18, and many of my friends have already had sex. In a few months, I will be going off to University, and I would like to have some expirence before I leave. I'm afraid that if I don't have sex with this girl, then my first time may be with some girl that is really drunk that I don't know really well. On the other hand I don't feel all that attracted to this girl, and she has gotten around a bit to say the least. I don't mind doing things with her besdies sex, because I would like the exprience before I leave, but the Sex part worries me a bit just because I never have done it.

RomanceClass.com Advice
There has to be a first time.

You have a willing girl and as you said, you want some experience before going off to college.

So what's the problem? Go for it. Use a condom!

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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