Condom in wallet, what shall I do?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have suspected my partner of cheating for a while now. I think he is cheating with women online, meeting up with them somewhere - maybe even dogging! I have found various texts messages on his phone, but when I confronted him he always made me feel silly for questioning him. So I have decided to get more proof, but how? I looked on his internet chatrooms(he doesnt know I know his password). He had sent a message to a women who goes dogging and he asked her what time will she be there. I then checked his wallet when he was asleep and found a condom. How do I confront him without him giving me some silly excuse and me falling for it? As you can see I am feeling quite vunerable so any help would be appreciated. Thank you. Advice
If it looks like a dog, walks like a dog, and barks like a dog...

Looks like you have a cheater on your hands. You seem to want to close your eyes when he explains. My advice is to get rid of this hound dog as soon as you can.

Good luck! George

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