Girl in my school

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male

I am 30 and I like this girl in my school, she is 23.

Well I was taking a class with her for one semester but never talked more than 'hi'. Fortunately we happened to meet at a conference again in some other city with two of our other friends. There we talked a lot, we went to bars drank.

Now back in school, I we four are very good friends. We went to a pub once again. And a dinner with other friends. That day after coming from the pub, she gave a hug to me and my friend who dropped her at home.

Later I emailed her saying that I like her very much and that I cannot get her out of my head. And therefore I might not be able to hang out with her. She replied we'll figure out a way.

Before she left on vacation, i told her in the pub that I will miss her. And she just said ok.

Earlier she had 3 bfs, last one she dated for 2yrs.

You think she likes me or not. Or I am wasting my time caring and thinking about her.

Thank You. Advice
You gave her two chances to express her feelings about you.

Both times she gave a non-committal answer meaning that she has no special feelings for you.

My advice is to keep in contact with her but don't expect much from the relationship.

Good luck! George

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