Flirting vs Stalking
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i have a problem. i like this girl and everyone knows i do. people are always trying to hook me up with her, there's only one problem, i cant talk to her. im the shy type and dont know how to talk to a girl and am nervous most of the time. i've tried to talk to her sometimes at this place where she gets picked up but am always slow and mostly she just walks away after a while. she knows i like her too.
Now she has the expression that i stalk her or something. i heard from friends that i scare her. i dont want to be known as a scary person and i dont think i can talk to her anymore because she would just get away from me. what should i do now???
Flirting is giving someone wanted attention. Stalking is giving someone unwanted attention. It might be that you are so enthusiastic that you start to push her too hard and don't realize she is getting overwhelmed.
Read through my tips on flirting -
and take it light and easy. Don't go after her every time you see her. Just smile, be casual, let her set the pace. The more she feels in control, the less afraid she will feel.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com