Worried but happy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
School is almost over and I have a weird question. There is this girl that I'm crazy about and we're in a weird situation. She has a boyfriend but they're done for , shes told me that numerous times. Well anyway, we've been talking for a couple of weeks and we've got extremely close. We have alot of deep conversations and stuff. Well the weird thing is she wants to go out with me but she feels that we should wait until after school starts back. She'll be gone alot during summer and she's worried that we won't be able to see each other much over summer. Does this mean she wants sometime to get stuff straight or is this a nice way of telling me that it's not going to happen. Thanks.
The ball is in your court.
You should tell her that you want to get together too but you want to start now. Tell her that summer can be a lot of fun to spend together even if she will be away some of the time.
Say this gently and with care to show her you understand her feelings.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com