How to get my ex to fall in love with me again?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We were the best of friends. He use to spend all of his free time with me. We both had our own place but he stayed with me about 5 days out of the week but he was always cheating. I cant be mad because I cheated too. But, we got into on Thanksgiving. He told me that he wanted some space so I gave him plenty of space. I moved the next day and did not tell him anything. I did not talk to him for 2 mos. then I realized that I was running away from the problem. When I seen him again he was like I am ready to commit to you now but he wanted me to move back. At the time I did not think it was the right thing to do because I was focused on moving on with my life but I wanted him to follow me. Instead I ended up not moving now I am stuck because he is involved with someone else now. But, he always calls me we spend all of our time together. If I am around he is with me but I don't think he loves me anymore. I really want to get him back. I want us to be together because without him I feel incomplete. With him I feel complete. He really makes me happy but I am just afraid of getting hurt. I want to be with him because we are really good friends. He is always listening to me and voicing his opinion on things but I never really listen to him. I do listen I just do the opposite of what he wants but now I feel like me doing the opposite has pushed him away. I left a month ago he hasn't seen me. He went over my best friends house the other day trying to find me. We talked and decided that when I got back we need to spend some time together but I really want him to fall in love with me again. What should I do?
If I knew the secret of getting someone to fall in love with you I'd be a billionaire.
My advice is to concentrate on building a good relationship. To do this you need to have trust/honesty, affection/love, and communication. If you focus on these he may be drawn back to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com