things havent got better
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
well ive gotten advice here already, but the situation hasnt got better. my previous question was "she dumped me not sure why but i want her back" well i thought we were on good terms, i talked to her as civil as possible then never heard from her so i suggested to her maybe we do need sometime, then she emailed me back justifing her actions, so i emailed back and cleared up what she didnt understand, as civil as possible, but i did break down every justification she had leavin no room for rebuttal, i just needed her to see my point of view, well i havent heard anything back, and im plannin on waitin to see what happens and not contact her cause i know she doesnt want to hear from me. basically i just need reassurance that not contacting her is the right thing to do and just give her time to figure things out and see how life is without me?
Perhaps you should send her one more email.
Tell her that your earlier email was probably too heavy handed in answering her complaints about you. The way you described it, it seems like you sent her a legal brief.
In your next email also say that you care for her and will give her the space she needs... this is something you suggested and seems a good idea.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com