I want one more chane
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Please help me I'm a lesbian. Me and my ex where together for 5mnths. We went through a stage of arguing alot and she ended up cheating on me. I realised I love her. I was willing to forgive her for it we was going to try again and now she has decided she doesnt want a relationship and wants us to just be friends. She keeps saying things that make her sound as though she isnt exactly sure on her decsion. Such as She says I'm going shes thinks she is to regret this and ne begging for me back and I probably wont have her and she will be the one crying. I told her I was throwing out my memories of her and shes saying Not to thow them because I dont kno whats going to happen in the future and on the phone the day after the split she was saying We will see how things go and I said what do u mean we are just friends and she kinda changed the subject.
I have tried acting not bothered and ended up crying in front of her. Ive been talking about another girl I'm intrested in and she seems really bothered by it by saying Good luck over and over again.
I am seeing her at the weekend what should I do?
Please help me I want one more chance
A good way to get what you want is by asking.
Your ex sounds like she is also tempted by the idea of getting together again. Remind her that summer is not far away and neither of you want to spend a lonely summer.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com