My girlfriend of 2 years left me..
Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Male
Ive been with this girl for almost 2 years now. We have been going through rough times recently and about 2 weeks ago she left. We were living together and were seeing eachother everyday for the past year and a half. I have tried to call her and work things out with her but she doesnt want to talk to me. Before she left we had been talking about getting married and moving to another state. I havent talked to her now for about 3 days. I feel like i have done everyting i can to get her back. Maye she needs some time i really dont know, but from the way she talked she doesnt sound like she wants to try again. She always accused me of cheating on her and i never did i always wanted to be with her and spend time with her. What steps should i take now if any to get her back or would i be wasting my time?
Three days is way too early to be making final decisions like letting her go.
Continue to try to contact her... tell her you only want to talk once a week just to see how she is doing. You can also take advantage and tell her you still care for her. Be upbeat and keep the call to 15 mins.
Maybe soon she will be comfortable talking with you more often or longer than 15 mins. These things take time.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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