Admitting Your Love
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am in love with this girl. But I get tensed up when I want to tell her about this, and forget to talk to her the important things as I keep thinking about her in front of her. This has gone for 2-3 months and now I wonder whether I can make her still be interested in me. I also feel the thought of rejection if I tell her this and I cannot bear it. pls guide me.
True love grows from a relationship in which both people can share their hopes, dreams, loves, fears, desires. It sounds like you're not quite at this stage yet, if you're still tongue tied when you try to talk to her :) It sounds like you're infatuated with her and aren't sure how to talk with her. So you need to start there.
Build the relationship first. Spend time with her. Take her on picnics, go to movies, go to dinner. You should be able up to curl up, arm in arm, and talk for hours about all sorts of things, about anything at all. That's the essence of being boyfriend and girlfriend, to be totally honest with each other, to trust that the other will be there for you.
And when you have that, you have true love, and it will be easy for you to look into each other's eyes and reveal that to each other. Because you'll have that foundation of trust, the foundation of honesty. When you have that relationship, the "I love you" will already be known, before it's said.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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