were back together, now what?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
so me adn my boyfreind of 1 year and 8 months were broken up for a month (due to lack of space, and my inability to trust him which caused tons of stress) i finally got him back by listening to the great advice on this site (dont beg, give him time and space) and he came back to me. now we say we are willing to give this another try and whatever happens happens. this happened today and i am so happy.
however, ive overcome most of my issues of lack of trust (there is no reason at all i shouldnt trust him, but in a past realtionship i got lied and cheated on way too much so its hard for me to trust my boyfrined)
is there any way to completley try to not worry and all that? im so glad i finally got him back, so now im kidna wondering...now what? what exactly should i do to make sure the problems dont come up again?
Congratulations on getting back together.
All you have to do now is to make sure your insecurities don't overwhelm you again. Whenever a jealous though comes up, attack it like an enemy. Tell the jealous feelings that he loves your and nobody else and tell them to go away. Do this about 100 times and they should give up bugging you and quit.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com