I don't understand this.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok me and this guy have been chillen and talking for a while now. We actually met at work. He is the one who pursued me. We have been out to the movies and we chilled at his house and talked about everything, he has even cried in front of me a few time actually. Now we have kissed, cuddled hugged he told me he had "some" feelings for me. I mean I lost my virginity to this guy, we chilled and everything like we use to for a while after that then recently it seems that he is pushing me away in some sort of way, now its not totally pushing me away its like he is scared of what he is feeling for me and is confused. I don't know what to think I have a lot of feelings for this guy and care for him very much. I have told him that I liked him. But I don't know how he feels anymore. He kisses me so passionately and nicely. He makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. He told me that he hated cuddling and that he has never cuddled with anyone else but me. And I mean if he didn't have feelings for me then why does he kiss me so passionately and why does he cuddle with me. I just don't know what to think anymore. I don't want to lose him he means so much to me and I just need to know what direction this is going in because I don't want to get in to deep with him and then just get hurt. Can you please help me understand?
There are too many possibilities to guess what he feels and why.
The best way to find out is to ask him how he feels about you. Be gentle and caring when you ask and be ready to describe how you feel about him. Sharing feelings could also bring you closer together.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com