I want to know if she still loves me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my ex girlfriend dated for 2 years and some months. I stilove her and really want her back. I'm the type of guy that realizes that realationships have ups and downs and that you have to work on the problems when they come, but she left me. Anyway, after a year and some months we broke up, but we got back together in two weeks. I believe we had serious communication problems. The second time we broke up she said I was boring, but she got back with me again cuz she missed me. Then we broke up again. She said I was boring and she couldn't vibe with me and I was too quiet and I didnt know how to treat her. I pleaded and begged to be with her cuz i still love her. We now have been apart for three months and she said she's happy without me but I wonder if there's truth to that cuz when I don't call for a few days she calls me, she asked me if I go out with girls one time, and she asked me when was the last time i had sex at one point too. We got in an argument the other day cuz I was explainin why we should be together but, she chewed me out and said she doesn't want me and she's happy. So I told her that I'm walking out of her life and I was serious. I didnt want to talk to her anymore and she said she was ok with that. A week later she called and gave me her new cell phone number. We talked after that but we argued again cuz I want her, but she still says she don't want me. Then I told her I'm leaving for good cuz I can't be her friend knowing that she is dating cuz i love her. Then two ays later she called again trying to have fun conversation with me but I brushed her off and she said that she will call me back cuz Im probably wondering why I called her (Which I Was). Then I felt bad and called her back that next minute but she had an attitude and said she's on the phone. I don't get it. Does she still love me? Is this a game? What should I do? I still want her BAD?! I'm alone lifeless. Should I not talk to her?? I mean she's dating guys that she likes and i feel I have have no chance sometimes with that? HELP ME PLEASE I LOVE HER!!!
You need to pin her down.
Ask her why she keeps calling you when she knows it gets your hopes up. Try to get her to answer the question because it is very important to you.
Whatever she says, it probably won't be something you want to hear. It's been three months now and it appears that she is over you. Who knows for sure why she is calling you... she might not know herself.
Look around for some attractive women and get on with your life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com