Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met my current bf on the internet and we have been together now for about 1 year and we live together currently. I'm 30 and he's 24. I am really jealous of other girls he talks to on the internet. He has talked to them before he has even met me and he tries to tell me he that he doesn't want anyone else they are just friends but I'm so scared he will want someone else on the internet. I'm not jealous of anyone else besides these girls. I don't know how to handle that and I don't want him to give up his friends either. Can you help me please?
You're jealous because the Internet is how he got together with you.
So naturally you are jealous of his Internet contacts. But this jealousy will just make matters worse.
One way to fight jealousy is to attack the feelings whenever they appear. Tell them that he loves you and those other girls are not important to him. Keep doing this for 100 times and the jealous thoughts will give up trying to bug you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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