Is he crazy? Am I crazy?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok heres the whole story...... He didn't want a girlfriend, he was a player. I didn't like him at first, but he tried really hard. I started hanging out with him.I told him that I didnt want to hurt him because I didnt think I would ever love him. After a couple of months, I started to like him, but he repeatidly told me that "we weren't together." I knew I wasnt the only girl in his life. It tore me up to see him with other girls. He would tell me about them, and there were a few instances where, they actually showed up at his house because he had previously invited them to stay the night. And I was constantly hearing about all of his other girls from friends. The jealousy killed me. We started getting closer despite it all. Things started going great. He was sweet and caring. Then the worse came, he hooked up with my arch enemy right in front of my face. I didnt talk to him for months, but I ended up taking him back, and we were "together" He was perfect for a while, but he got meaner and meaner and meaner. He always put me down. I went to visit my sister for a week, and he went to see a "friend" that happened to be a girl out of town. I had it, i broke it off. then he told me he hadnt wanted to be together towards the end and he was pushing me away. he still calls me. we still hook up on occasion, but he is still VERY mean to me. Whats his deal?
His deal is that he is a mean player.
Your deal is that you are putting up with it.
Dump this loser as fast as you can.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com