Finding the Words
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
How do i explain to someone why i have feelings for them? I mean i know why i feel the way i do, its just hard to put into words for me.
It might help you get started by setting the stage for a quiet talk. I have advice here -
So try your best to make the situations EASIER for you to talk in. And then you have to take a deep breath, open your mouth and give it your best shot. It gets easier the more you talk, and you really have to learn this to be able to have a good relationship. So get talking!
One of the most important things you have with a person is your ability to be honest with them, to share how you feel. Yes, it's not easy!! But it is REALLY really important for so many reasons. So this is something you have to actively practice a ton. If you can't tell her this one thing, it sort of means there are all sorts of things you feel and worry about and want that you probably haven't told her about.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com