She have changed a lot
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi I've been with a fabilous fun girl for the last 4 months and she have always wanted me to come straight home from work and do something fun and we've spend all time together and she loves my funny jokes and performance and tell my that she adore me and all that.
She always talk about we should start renting, by a car together and plan our future kitchen and visit her grandfather who lives far away.
Everything is "we must" and I like it very much.
Just one tiny moment, one day she changed. She was numb and said she was just tired but she can laught to others but not to me.
I dropped test questions and all answers are not anymore "we" I asked if she is tired on the relationship but she said no and said she would tell me if it was so.
Now she ask if I don't have to visit my friends on the evenings and she kiss me less goodbye and doesn't lay her hands on my laps when we're driving.
But she still ask if I can buy shampoo on the way home
and say we have to start eat healthier food.
Should I be calm and see what happens or say to her "We need to talk"
What is going on in her mind?
It sounds like she is losing some of her feelings for you.
You should continue to talk with her and see if she will share her thoughts with you. Communications is one of the most import parts of a good relationship.
Things could get worse if you don't communicate now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com