Guys are Courting my Girl
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i'm always jealous of the guy(s) who always text my girl and ask if they/he can court her... it always sucks!!! and i sometimes hurt my girl's feelings because of my jealousness... how can i get rid of this jealousness and why does my girl don't wanna admit that she is taken to the guys who text her???
On one hand you should trust your girlfriend to be true to you, and try to get your jealousy under control. But on the other hand, your girlfriend also has an obligation to be trustworthy and act honorably. To encourage and enjoy the attentions of other guys and to in essence "lead them on" isn't right at all. She should be telling these guys "I'm Taken, Sorry" and then stand by it. For her to keep encouraging them is bad both for them and for your relationship.
I wrote an article on this topic when it's an ex persuing the girlfriend. I really think it applies here too, you might want to read it:
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com