im becoming deep in love with a boy who i met him not than one month

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i have a boyfriend whom i love him so much,who he had already took me to his parents and told them that he want to marry me,we are together for nearly one year and something.
im in university now and im in advance diploma first year,nowdays ive becomming so deep in love with someone who is in certificate in the same institution,we started talking,chating all day long and we suddenly come too close and now we are lovers.
till this moment im writing this to you,we didnt even kiss each other bt we plan to meet on saturday noon.
my boyfriend already saw changes on me,that i don love him the way i did,i dont want to meet with him frequently,bt i love him and i want him to marry me,bt also i love my new lover so much.
thanks. Advice
It's time to make up you mind.

Say yes to one and let the other one go.

Your attraction to this new guy may feel like love but it is more likely simply physical.

If you want to marry your boyfriend my advice is to stop talking to this new guy. Explain to him that you are planning to get married and cannot proceed with him.

Your other choice is to tell your boyfriend that you want to try a different relationship and be with this new boy. This could be dangerous since you don't really know this new boy very much. Too fast too soon!

Good luck! George

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